Dating tips for the 40ish?

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Dating tips for over 40′s? I haven’t been “out” there for years. What does it countenance like? I don’t hit case but how do you fellow and not speech most your ‘stuff’ when you are in your 40′s….you’ve been finished the marriage, divorce, children. How do you go discover on a fellow and yield every that discover and meet hit fun?

9 Comments so far

  1. blondepiaga on January 16th, 2009

    Don’t dress like my mom.

  2. cwb63ss on January 19th, 2009

    things have changed good luck to you.

  3. steph on January 20th, 2009

    don’t bring up the past unless asked ?

    & if asked ? brush by it quick & move to your subject of something totally opposite..

  4. n9wff on January 20th, 2009

    take it gradual and laid back. I married at 35, but it took that long to know what I wanted and needed. Plus I had to learn how to treat the lady right.
    It works both ways. If you’re in it for yourself, dating is only half the fun.

  5. OleMarbleEyes on January 23rd, 2009

    go to singles and dating and ask this

    how much experience to you think married people will be able to offer.

  6. martin n on January 25th, 2009

    I don’t know, but its big and scary and not as much fun as when we had big hair, platform shoes and wore skinny jeans.
    And the music… its all shouting nowadays, not like when we were young, we had proper songs then. Commodores, Abba, Zig Zig Sputnik. And the clothes. Oh my goodness. The girls walking around with half their bottoms sticking out. Not that I’m complaining, you know…..

  7. johngolfs2002 on January 28th, 2009

    Just go out and be yourself.
    Don’t ***** it up with worrying how to be.

    Smart women get this one right, kiddo.
    You can do it.

  8. Tom S on January 29th, 2009

    Dating at 40 is no different than any other time.It will be awkward yet fun.Keep an open mind,don’t settle for average,enjoy yourself.I like to make my date feel at ease right off the bat,set up guidelines and stick with them.Let me know what you expect and that is what you usually get.Once again it is a new part of your life , embrace the change and have fun.Email me if you want to chat.

  9. Butterfly on January 31st, 2009

    You can talk about yourself, your likes and dislikes. You don’t go all overboard on the first few dates. Maybe you communicate well and it all comes flooding out. There will come a time that you should talk about your past. It is what makes you ,who you are and you should talk about it at some point on down the road if you see the relationship going somewhere. You can always follow his lead. One of the best pieces if advice I learned is to not sleep with a man to soon. There are many that just want booty calls and some are even married. The ones that are playing games will go away very fast if you don’t give them any. The ones that really want to get to know you will keep calling you and seeing you without the ***.

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