Is it okay to login to online dating sites?

online dating sites

I hit been dating this girl for 3 months. I savor the online dating sites but opt not to go on because I don’t wan’t to undergo if she is on and her to undergo that I am on. I ease poverty to wave it and sees whoose discover their but see uncompfortable doing so. Why would this be, or should I meet go with it anyway. We are not inner or anything.

15 Comments so far

  1. warrior on December 27th, 2009

    If you are not exclusive then it doesn’t matter.

  2. jmclaughlin07 on December 30th, 2009

    if you’re not exclusive, go for it!

  3. nite_angelica on December 30th, 2009

    If you guys aren’t exclusive and she is aware of this fact, then go ahead and do it.

    If she is confused about how you feel, you need to clear it up with her.

  4. Ichabod on December 30th, 2009

    If you are sleeping with her, then I guarantee you she believes you are exclusive and you have no business checking out the ads. If you do not want her anymore, make a break, call things off and start browsing the ads. I can tell you dude, browsing the ads while you’re with someone else? Bad idea. BAD idea.

  5. Claudia on January 2nd, 2010

    You could just tell her you’d like to go on these sites to see who’s out there. See how she feels about it.

  6. whisjess on January 3rd, 2010

    Tell her you are doing it but apart from that I don’t see anything wrong with it

  7. yesiabc08 on January 6th, 2010

    WELL IF YOU FEEL GUILTY THAT MEANS THAT YOU PROBABLY SHOULDNT DO IT. BUT IF YOU ARE GOING TO DO IT CREATE A WHOLE NEW LOG IN AND USE IT JUST TO SURF DONT GO ON THERE TRYING TO DATE OTHER GIRLS. THAT WAY YOU KNOW WHOS ON THERE BUT YOU WONT BE DOING ANYTHING WRONG.

  8. jeje_thecat on January 9th, 2010

    go 4 another g cuz you said it you are not exclusive!!

  9. mandylinn on January 11th, 2010

    No, it’s not wrong for you to go to look and see. If you were going on there to find a date, than I would tell you to break it off with your girlfriend first.
    Expesically if you two aren’t totally exclusive, you never know what could happen between the relationship so, at least you know this way you have options. & finding Mrs Right could take many tries :) good luck

  10. weakest Link! on January 12th, 2010

    i would suggest hmm.. no.. as for me.. i am no longer logging in to the online dating sites since i have a bf already and i don’t wnt him to have an impression that am looking for someone.. and that goes for him,too. we have an account from a certain wherein we check our account everytime but he’s the one who keeps on checking my account.. and i don’t mind at all

  11. Sheri on January 14th, 2010

    Do say something to her about it.

    Honestly it sounds like the girl you’re with doesn’t give you everything you may be wanting in a relationship which helps fuel the desire to “keep looking”.

    Don’t hide your interest especially if she feels stronger about you than you feel about her.

    Do you think that this girl you’re seeing now has potential for more that you would want to be exclusive with her? That might be another thing to consider instead of the whole online dating site thing.

    Good luck!

  12. oneluv907 on January 14th, 2010

    Go ahead -you’re not exclusive/married. Have fun!

  13. toy on January 16th, 2010

    just do it,long as u both are not exclusive,do anything.(nothing very stupid)

  14. myluv115 on January 20th, 2010

    Well if you aren’t exclusively dating each other, it shouldn’t be an issue. If you find her on as well you don’t have to feel bad because she is doing it too!

  15. moma J on January 20th, 2010

    So why would it matter if you are free to see other people anyway?

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